Does love seems to vanish after a couple has children? Most of the times the husband feels that his wife’s attention turns into the children instead of him. While most husband is fine with this, sometimes it gets worse after two children. The problem is not as bad as that since the wife is actually temporarily forget that she used to have romantic moment with her husband. What the husband needs to do is to create some romance moments with his wife. Children are great and funny but they often make romanticism vanish in a family. love and romance is what made the children in the first place, they should be the with the family too in the end.